Being a mother - How to change one's life in an instance

Seeing your baby for the first time changes your life for good.

You may have thought that the growing belly, getting pictures from the ultrasound and all that kicking made you realize the change ahead. However, those are just tiny steps on the way to parenthood.

There are no words that describe the feeling when you get to hold your baby for the first time.

Having the little body in your arms makes you experience so many extreme but different feelings. You feel small while also big and powerful, absolutely clueless but in perfect control.

Mother nature has equipped us with the basic feelings and sense of being calm and collective when facing life's biggest moment. We are after all made to reproduce and that is one thing we humans all do equally well.

Hearing your baby scream out her lungs as she comes out makes you feel happy rather than afraid since the crying is your babies way of letting everybody know she has arrived and is well and breathing normally.

Baby girl hugging its motherNext you get to hold and feel your baby for an instance. The moment when you get your baby in your arms connects you together forever. Who would imagine a tiny moment could make the strongest bond ... a bond that will never brake.

Feeding your baby for the first time, nourishing her from your own body is an incredible feet of human nature.

The first milk is the most important milk your baby will drink.

But the first time your baby drinks your milk is also an important moment for the mother. You are starting to care for your baby and from that moment on you will care for it for the unforeseeable future.


Your life has changed in an instance.

From now on you are guaranteed to experience the feelings of happiness, joy, pain, frustration, anger, warmth, laughter and unconditional love your baby brings.

No matter where you go or what you're doing your new role of being a mother will always follow.

When you go shopping the shopping list will be greatly influenced by the someone else's needs than your own. If you get a babysitter and try to go and have a night out with friends the thought of how your baby is doing won't leave the back of your head until you get back home.

From now on wherever you go, whether it's for the gym, work or the hairdresser's, your mind will always be keep focused on the well being of your child.

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